04-04-2009, 07:50 PM
Asrrin29 Wrote:When you are in school, and see the group hanging out at the lunch table, are you the guy that walks his happy ass over to the table, pulls up a chair to the table uninvited, and starts chatting and laughing and talking to these virtual strangers like they were old pals? you don't do that! You do not go up to a group of people and expect to be treated exactly like everyone else. It's human nature. you are a stranger, know one knows you, or trusts you. you need to introduce yourself, be friendly, be outgoing, be courteous, and contribute to the group. eventually you become familiar enough with people to start kidding, and joking, and being critical.
tl;dr
Go take a fucking sociology class.
i actually like that explanation is was said in a way that wasn't mean