OMFG I AM GNA EXPLODE

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Argh basicaly i have an opt control that says private message player: then a combobox that gets the online list, so you can just select who to talk to and keep in pm with them. However, whenever anyone logs in/out it updates the online list and the combobox with their name is goes blank obviously as its cleared and filled with new info... this is frustrating as hell as you have to select the person you were talking to again.. its stupid.

Code:

' ::::::::::::::::::::::::::
' :: Get Online List ::
' ::::::::::::::::::::::::::
If LCase(Parse(0)) = "onlinelist" Then
frmOnline.lstOnline.Clear
frmMainGame.txtplayername.Clear
frmMainGame.Refresh

n = 2
z = Val(Parse(1))
For X = n To (z + 1)
frmOnline.lstOnline.AddItem Trim(Parse(n))
frmMainGame.txtplayername.AddItem Trim(Parse(n))
frmMainGame.Refresh
n = n + 2
Next X
Exit Sub
End If

thats the code that sends the online information to the box.. i am completely stuck, i need the box to update but i want it to keep the playername selected IF they are still online...

spent 2 hours trying allsorts to try and figure this out any solution is welcome...

Foxy

edit: oh txtplayername is the combobox, bad naming i know but it was originaly a textbox till i thought this idea would be better.... -.-